friends
with the popular saying "People walks in and out of our lives but only true friends leaves footprints in our heart". i believe this is true. for my 26 years of existence i really think i've already met thousands of people. some are acquaintances, some are classmates, officemates, clients, customers, some actually became my friends. well... friends come and go, sometimes not because they want to go but sometimes it's because they have to go.
although i lost communication with some of my friends, i always remember they were once a part of me. some friends turns to enemies but like i said i still remember the things and memories we share, there might be hatred but then again time will heal the pain. i remember i got few friends turn enemies when i was still in grade school, funny because of petty reasons, well who can blame us we're still a bunch of kids. then again, like i said everything heals as time pass by. these friends turned enemies, i still see them once in a while walking around the malls, bars, resto or somewhere, you know what? we nod and say hi to each other, although we won't stop and catch up still a simple nod or hi is enough. i got a group of friends before we graduated high school, sadly because we studied college in different school i lost in touch with most of them. to date, jen, joyce, janet are the only once i keep in touch with. it's good that i live in an advance technology generation that's why i can now catch up with some of my old friends, joy a
nd jen, the others? well i guess i have to know their email addy or their cellphones first. my college days are not as colorful as others, maybe because i studied at a chinese school. it seems like i'm still in high school bah! oh well... at least i gain good friends, for 4 years i met a lot of people not only in school but also through internet chat. ebs are the best way to meet people from another part of the country. it was fun! after i graduated and had a boyfriend i stop chatting maybe because it's not really nice? i dont really know why but i just stop. my friends from chat remain my friends for quite sometime. we graduated college, i still keep in touch with my college friends although just through ym and yahoogroups. sid, dom, ernest, tif, mich, ericson are just some of the friends that i really miss seing in person. how i wish there will be reunion soon.
5 years ago i met emer's 8 kabarkada, they never made me feel out of place. sooner i became one of them, how blessed i am to have such good and true friends. eki, pame, shine, marie, ni, deo, bry and alvin. i felt the sense of belonging. slowly as we grew older the group grew bigger, jerome, mike2 and mike1 join in. we cannot go out like we used to, we cannot spend as much as we spend before and its not as bad as it seems, it's also because we are now trying to save for our future. once in a while we hang out have dinner, have a coffee or spend an overnight together.
as we are busy with our lives, new people come, i met a new sets of friends, the air club. because this is a club, people walk in and out of the group. i still remember when we are just about 20 members then, now we are like about 40 in the group. for almost 8 months now, i am over whelmed that i met these guys, i proved unity and friendship value with these people. there are some misunderstanding but heck you can't please everybody, what's important is that most of them like you for being you. i learned a lot from them, the real meaning of sisterhood/brotherhood. with them i found a new family.
now, going back to my first statement, "people walk in and out of our lives" i just hope these people will never walk out of my life. i value my friends eventhough i seldom see or talk to them, they play a big role in my life. i can live without all the riches in the world but i cannot live with out my friends. if ask me what are my priceless posession it's not those material things, it's my family, emer and my friends.
p.s. let me talk about my family next time! :)
although i lost communication with some of my friends, i always remember they were once a part of me. some friends turns to enemies but like i said i still remember the things and memories we share, there might be hatred but then again time will heal the pain. i remember i got few friends turn enemies when i was still in grade school, funny because of petty reasons, well who can blame us we're still a bunch of kids. then again, like i said everything heals as time pass by. these friends turned enemies, i still see them once in a while walking around the malls, bars, resto or somewhere, you know what? we nod and say hi to each other, although we won't stop and catch up still a simple nod or hi is enough. i got a group of friends before we graduated high school, sadly because we studied college in different school i lost in touch with most of them. to date, jen, joyce, janet are the only once i keep in touch with. it's good that i live in an advance technology generation that's why i can now catch up with some of my old friends, joy a
nd jen, the others? well i guess i have to know their email addy or their cellphones first. my college days are not as colorful as others, maybe because i studied at a chinese school. it seems like i'm still in high school bah! oh well... at least i gain good friends, for 4 years i met a lot of people not only in school but also through internet chat. ebs are the best way to meet people from another part of the country. it was fun! after i graduated and had a boyfriend i stop chatting maybe because it's not really nice? i dont really know why but i just stop. my friends from chat remain my friends for quite sometime. we graduated college, i still keep in touch with my college friends although just through ym and yahoogroups. sid, dom, ernest, tif, mich, ericson are just some of the friends that i really miss seing in person. how i wish there will be reunion soon.5 years ago i met emer's 8 kabarkada, they never made me feel out of place. sooner i became one of them, how blessed i am to have such good and true friends. eki, pame, shine, marie, ni, deo, bry and alvin. i felt the sense of belonging. slowly as we grew older the group grew bigger, jerome, mike2 and mike1 join in. we cannot go out like we used to, we cannot spend as much as we spend before and its not as bad as it seems, it's also because we are now trying to save for our future. once in a while we hang out have dinner, have a coffee or spend an overnight together.
as we are busy with our lives, new people come, i met a new sets of friends, the air club. because this is a club, people walk in and out of the group. i still remember when we are just about 20 members then, now we are like about 40 in the group. for almost 8 months now, i am over whelmed that i met these guys, i proved unity and friendship value with these people. there are some misunderstanding but heck you can't please everybody, what's important is that most of them like you for being you. i learned a lot from them, the real meaning of sisterhood/brotherhood. with them i found a new family.
now, going back to my first statement, "people walk in and out of our lives" i just hope these people will never walk out of my life. i value my friends eventhough i seldom see or talk to them, they play a big role in my life. i can live without all the riches in the world but i cannot live with out my friends. if ask me what are my priceless posession it's not those material things, it's my family, emer and my friends.
p.s. let me talk about my family next time! :)
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